There's is a big difference between Lust and Love, Having a strong feeling for someone can make you think you in love, especially when someone is really good in bed it can make you think you fallen over heels for that person but the reality it's Lust .
For example a friend of mine is been with a guy for a couple months now he been treating like shyt, telling her shes uneducated like all the worse thing a girl dont want to hear from a male. He even stop talking to her couple of days and write her like nothing ever happen but she always reply, even we told her its not a healty relationship but she think she cant leave him because she said the sex is really good and she think she love him.
The reality is he never ask her or took her on a date, if you considering going to the club with her and his friends as a date be my guess. While the other guy who truly care about her taking her out to eat, throwing her a birthday party and buy her gift but at the end she still choose the asshole over him .Sometime when you so use getting what you want and suddenly a person take that away from you, it start driving you crazy and start to become obsess asking yourself "why doesn't he want me ?" "Am too skinny or fat? " etc. So here's the difference between Love and Lust.
1. Lust -is physical emotion and reaction to someone else physical appearance. It's when you're sexuality attracted to a guy and want him only for sex.Lust tends to be short live and is more about immediate gratification. If it's just lust, you will have sex in the heat of the moment and only feel physically fulfilled.
2.Love- Fellings are the most common way that people learn about and experience love.when it is truly love, you will feel good about yourself when you're with and without him. As a result, you will also feel good about him.Since you're only human, sometimes you may not feel good about yourself or him.This doesn't mean it's not love .It just means that things are ebbing, change and growth are taking place.
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